Whenever we feel down, it’s always a good thing to read books and hear advices filled with inspirational messages that can easily make us feel more active and alive. Life is not always about the problems we face or the obstacles we encounter. It is about how we as an individual grow and stand up to the challenges of life. It is not a story about how you fall down but how you rise up from the challenges you faced.
One of the songs I’ve heard tells about how life turns like a wheel. It is true that sometimes we are cast down, but it is not always. We can always rise up. We as humans should never put a limit on what we can do. Don’t ever listen to people who only want to bring you down.
Don’t live a life full of regrets. We only live once so make every action count. It’s better to live with and enjoy the things that surround you, than regret later in your life for the things that you wanted to do, but never did.
By not giving attention to someone, you create the possibility of them missing you. Sometimes, a person would think of you as a mystery that needs to be uncovered. And by doing so, you’ll get the attention you needed from them without wasting your attention in return.
Falling in love is a very simple thing, you only need to justify what you feel to prove someone you love them. But falling out of love on the other hand, is another thing. It is a very different thing indeed. Falling out of love takes more courage to confess than when you’re telling someone you love them. You need to accept everything and anything a person throw at you when you tell them you are not in love them anymore.
Don’t procrastinate. Always finish the things that you started. Making excuses will only prove that you really don’t want to do it. Whatever you do, however you do something, always do it whole – heartedly. Doing something when you put your heart into it can give you a feeling of accomplishment and achievement.
Sometimes it is not the enemy that is to be feared, but the friends we hold close to our hearts. We trust them fully and never doubted them. But then, we we’ve trusted them completely that is when they will strike us in the back. Do not trust so easily. Even the one you hold closest can sometimes be the tratior in your midst.
Humility is not achieved by belittling yourself. It is achieved by putting others first before you. Selflessness, in other words, being humble and selfless but being compassionate to others. To not care about pride or vanity, to not be affected by greed and envy, thinking of what will happen to others before yourself. That is humility.
By believing in achieving your dreams, you create a better future for yourself. Only those who have dreams can grow to be a better version of themselves. What we want to be and what kind of live we want to have in the future depends solely on how far we can challenge ourselves to make our dreams come true.
We always dream of having the best relationship with someone we like. We even plan beforehand what we would do if we will be together with them before we even consider courting them. But sometimes, fate ruins your plans and makes a better choice you. Accidents happen for a reason. Even in a relationship.
Sometimes when we feel so down that not even our friends can make us feel better, we resort to listening to our favorite music. It’s because it has been a hobby for us to listen to music every time. By listening to music, we relate with the lyrics and move with the rhythm. We understand music, and music understands us. Music is the language of the soul, so they say.
In this day and age, the word “love” is so common that it can be used any time we wanted. We can say to people we really like and to people we don’t even know. But it is very hard, really, to find someone who can actually mean the word love, especially when we live in a world full of lies.